一、人生，只有你自己想努力，才能真正的努力。這是任何人都無法用逼迫讓你達到的目的，它只能是出由你自己內心的意願，你才會真正的著手去調整，去完善，去提升，去塑造一個更好的自己。

Life， only if you want to work hard， can you really work hard。 This is the purpose that no one can force you to achieve。 It is only the will of your own heart that you will really begin to adjust， improve， improve and shape a better self。

二、真朋友越來越少，假交情越來越多，能陪在身邊的就是最好的，能對你真心的才是最貴的。不要拿忙和累當藉口，一次次冷落對你好的人，不要把錢和利看得重，一遍遍把真心的人辜負。

has fewer and fewer true friends, more and more false friendships, the best is to be with you, and the most expensive is to be sincere with you. Don't use busy and tired as an excuse, neglect the people who are good to you time after time, don't value money and profit seriously, and fail the sincere people again and again.

三、 生活不簡單，儘量簡單過。當你能夠忘記你的過去，看重你的現在，樂觀你的未來時，你就站在了生活的最高處。沒流淚，不代表沒眼淚；無所謂，不代表無所累。當你知道什麼是欲哭無淚，欲訴無語，欲笑無聲的時候，你成熟了。

Life is not simple, try to be as simple as possible. When you can forget your past, value your present and be optimistic about your future, you are at the top of your life. No tears, does not mean no tears; no matter, does not mean no tiredness. When you know what it is to cry without tears, to speak without words, to laugh without voice, you are mature.

四、放得下，過去就是支撐未來的基石；放不下，昨天就是拖累今天的包袱。優雅地轉身，才能邂逅越來越多的幸福。生活的美不在於絢爛，而在於寧靜。人生的旅途豔陽與風雨交織，心若向往，就前行；心若疲憊，就小憩。

can let go, the past is the cornerstone of the future; if not, yesterday is the burden of today. Only by turning gracefully can we encounter more and more happiness. The beauty of life lies not in its splendor, but in its tranquility. The journey of life is intertwined with sunshine and rain. If the heart longs for it, it goes ahead; if the heart is tired, it takes a rest.

五、這輩子，和誰過，怎樣過，過多久，有人因為愛情，有人因為物質，有人因為容貌，有人因為前途，有人因為壓力。而當這日子真的要和選擇的人一起過了，你才明白，錢夠花就好，容貌不嚇人就行。其實真正幸福的標準，無需理由很簡單，只要笑容比眼淚多，你就找對人了。

In this life, with whom, how, how long, some because of love, some because of material, some because of appearance, some because of the future, some because of pressure.

And when this day is really going to be spent with the people you choose, you will realize that if you have enough money to spend, you can do it without scaring your appearance. In fact, the criterion of true happiness, no reason is simple, as long as there are more smiles than tears, you will find the right person.

六、當你成功了，怎麼說都是對的。因為，大家看見你臺上的風光、頭頂的光環！沒成功的時候，怎麼解釋都是錯的，因為人們相信眼見為實！所以，你就埋頭幹吧，別把時間浪費在解釋上。

When you succeed, it's all right. Because, you see the scenery on your typhoon, the halo overhead! When it fails, it's wrong to explain it, because people believe that seeing is believing! So, you just bury your head in it and don't waste your time explaining it.

七、 很多人把心動、迷戀或傾慕誤認為愛情，但心動跟真正的愛情根本無法相比。心動的光芒最多隻是顆鑽石的光芒，讓你驚歎它的華麗，恨不得立刻擁有；但真愛的光芒就像陽光，久了也許會讓人覺得稀鬆平常，但這種光芒能溫暖你，照耀你，一旦失去你的整個世界都黑暗了。

many people mistake heart, infatuation or admiration for love, but heart can not be compared with real love. The light of heartbeat is at most the light of a diamond, which makes you marvel at its magnificence and wish you had it right away.

But the light of true love is like sunshine, which may make you feel ordinary for a long time, but it can warm you and shine on you. Once you lose your whole world, it is dark.

八、我不聰明，但肯定不傻，很多事兒，都能看明白，只是不想說太多而已。你對我一份好，我必加倍珍惜；你對我不在意，我必轉身離去。和我相處，請帶上你的真誠！

I am not smart, but certainly not silly, a lot of things, can see clearly, just do not want to say too much. You are good to me, I will double cherish; you do not care about me, I will turn away. Get along with me, please bring your sincerity!

九、煙雨蒙兮，花又開，春風吹上小樓臺。我的家，如世外，總有雨傘等著你回來。煙雨蒙兮，花又開，夢迴走上小樓臺。我的心，在雲外，每當明月爬上來，盡是故鄉風采。狂雨催我離家千里外，歲月把我容顏改，故鄉回憶永遠在心懷，恰似煙雨化不開。煙雨蒙兮，花又開，叫我怎忘懷？

Smoke and rain, flowers blooming, spring wind blowing up the small balcony. My home, like the rest of the world, always has an umbrella waiting for you to come back. Smoke and rain, flowers blooming, dream back to the small balcony. My heart, outside the clouds, whenever the bright moon climbs up, is full of homeland elegance.

Heavy rain urges me to leave home thousands of miles away. Years have changed my face. Memories of my hometown are always in my mind, just like rain and smoke can not be melted. How can I forget the misty rain and the blooming flowers?

十、一生之中一定會遇到某個人，他打破你的原則，成為你的例外，成就你全世界的幸福。、每天都是新的一天，那麼，請帶著感恩，寬容，自信和愛去迎接它的到來！

will meet someone in its lifetime who breaks your principles and becomes your exception and achieves your happiness all over the world. Every day is a new day, so please welcome it with gratitude, tolerance, confidence and love!

十一、有時候，努力，不是為了改變世界，而是不被世界改變。沒有一條路是彎路，也沒有一種努力是荒廢，因為生命的精彩從來都不是以結局論斷好壞。不是所有奮鬥都會有一個讓你滿意的結果，但每一個奮鬥的過程都會讓你變得與眾不同！只要一直走下去，驀然回首，你會發現，堅持的每一處，都是曾經想要放棄時以為到達不了的地方！

sometimes strives not to change the world, but not to be changed by it. No road is a detour, no effort is wasted, because the brilliance of life is never judged by the outcome. Not all struggles will have a satisfactory result, but every struggle process will make you different!

As long as you keep going, suddenly look back, you will find that every persistence is where you thought you could not reach when you wanted to give up!

十二、總有一個人，要我們用一生去懷念，卻又要用一輩子去別離。若總被忽視，又何必作賤了自己；若不被珍惜，又何必苦苦去維繫。

There will always be a person who wants us to miss him for a lifetime, but to leave him for a lifetime. If they are always neglected, why should they be humiliated? If they are not treasured, why should they suffer to maintain.

十三、至於未來會怎樣，要用力走下去才知道，記住先變成更喜歡的自己，再遇到一個不需要取悅的人，反正路還長，天總會亮。

As for what will happen in the future, we need to work hard to know, remember to first become more like ourselves, and then meet a person who does not need to please, anyway, the road is still long, the sky will always light.

十四、每一夜都能幹乾淨淨，心安理得、精疲力盡地入睡，每一天也能清清爽爽，心平氣和，精神充沛地醒來，這就是我想要的生活。對的路，對的人，你要明白自己懂還是放棄，錯過的人，錯過的情，你要有時間差，也要有人心和人算的能力。

Every night can be clean, peaceful, exhausted to sleep, every day can be refreshing, calm, energetic wake up, this is the life I want. The right way, the right person, you have to understand whether you understand or give up, the missing person, the missing situation, you have to have time difference, but also have the ability of heart and human calculation.

十五、 經歷越多就越不想說話，環境的不同，想說的話別人未必能懂，也就慢慢學會了自己默默承受。人生的歡樂來自我們的新體驗，時間就像海綿裡的水，只要願擠，總還是有的。

The more experience you have, the less you want to talk. The different environment, the words you want to say may not be understood by others, so you gradually learn to bear them silently. The joy of life comes from our new experience. Time is like water in a sponge. If you want to squeeze, there will always be some.

十六、人世間的情分都是有額度的，曾經彼此善待，就不枉了這一場相遇。所以，別把任何善待都看作理所應當，夫妻抑或朋友，情分有限，用完即止。對你好你就珍惜點，不是所有人都能強大到作盡了福分，還能絕地重來。

human sentiments are quota, once treated each other kindly, not in vain this encounter. Therefore, don't take any kindness for granted. Couples or friends have limited emotions and will not be used up. Cherish your kindness. Not everyone can be strong enough to do his best and return to the Jedi.

十七、你曾告訴我，你有故事我有酒，餘生讓我陪你走。可結果只剩我與故事和烈酒。我不是天使，但我擁有天堂；我沒有翅膀，但我俯視陽光；我沒有三葉草，但我手捧希望，因為我有你，我的朋友。

you told me that you had a story and I had wine. Let me accompany you for the rest of my life. But the result was me and stories and spirits. I am not an angel, but I have heaven; I do not have wings, but I look down on the sun; I do not have clover, but I hold hope, because I have you, my friend.

十八、一個人至少擁有一個夢想，有一個理由去堅強，如果失敗之後還能呼吸，那就不要心灰意冷，再艱難也要振作，有些夢想還在來的路上，很多改變就在於我們下一秒的忍耐，當你還能承受，別輕易說放棄，堅持雖然很累，但放棄可能是終生的隱痛。

A person has at least one dream, there is a reason to be strong, if he can breathe after failure, then don't be discouraged and cold, no matter how hard it is, he should be refreshed. Some dreams are still coming. Many changes lie in our patience in the next second. When you can bear them, don't give up easily. Sticking to them is very tired, but giving up may be a lifelong pain.

十九、 人生中最永恆的幸福就是平凡，內心的強大，才能夠稀釋一切痛苦和哀愁；人生就如石上磨刀，需要積累。

life is ordinary, strong heart, which can dilute all pain and sorrow; life is like sharpening knife on a stone, which needs accumulation.

二十、我不能再做一個感性的人，我要做一個理性的人。事實證明，我做不到。還是會在看了某些電影后莫名感動，還是會聽一些人都沒聽過的老歌，還是和以前一樣傻傻地笑，只是笑的有些牽強。

I can't be an emotional person anymore. I want to be a rational person. As it turns out, I can't. Or after watching some movies inexplicably moved, or will listen to some people have not heard the old songs, or as silly as before, just laugh a little far-fetched.