我們每個人都活在自己的過去。人會用一分鐘去認識一個人，用一個小時去喜歡一個人，再用一天去愛上一個人，最後，用一輩子去忘記一個人。女人很清楚，如果選擇原諒，就要學會放手。如果這件事被反覆提及，夫妻之間的感情將永遠不會回到過去，這件事將永遠成為一根刺。

Each of us lives in our own past。 People will take a minute to know someone， one hour to like someone， and one day to love someone。 Finally， it will take a lifetime to forget someone。 Women know that if they choose to forgive， they must learn to let go。 If this matter is mentioned repeatedly， the relationship between husband and wife will never go back to the past， and this matter will always become a thorn。

曾經我以為，以誠待人也可以換來別人以誠待人。不顧一切不讓身邊的人傷心，卻發現受傷的是自己。經歷了一些事情後，我意識到我真的很傻。

Once I thought that being honest with others can also be exchanged for being honest with others。 Desperate not to make the people around you sad， but found that it was yourself who was hurt。 After going through some things， I realized that I was really stupid。

我看著你像現在一樣微笑，但我和你在一起是那麼開心和難過，但我總是站在現在，而你卻永遠停留在過去。

I look at you smiling like now， but I am so happy and sad with you， but I always stand in the present， but you always stay in the past。

風不知道雲的漂泊，雨的蒼涼，淚的怯懦，所以你不知道我的選擇，也不知道我的悲傷。不是每個人都必須快樂，也不是每個痛苦都必須訴說。

The wind doesn‘t know the wandering of clouds， the desolation of rain and the cowardice of tears， so you don’t know my choice or my sadness。 Not everyone must be happy， nor every pain must be told。

如果不見面，就不會有愛情，也不會有感情的糾纏；不見面就沒有心，就沒有心痛。

If we don‘t meet， there will be no love or emotional entanglement； No meeting， no heart， no heartache。

當時以為只要全心全意愛一個人，對方就不會離開，以為可以和喜歡的人在一起很久，但現實總是殘酷的。

At that time， I thought that as long as I loved someone wholeheartedly， the other party would not leave。 I thought I could be with the person I like for a long time， but the reality is always cruel。